In the Settings dialog of Pocket PC 2002 there is an option to "Receive all incoming beams and select discoverable mode"
Any ideas what program or thread or process this interacts with, because I need to disable it before doing a manual Infra-Red (non-irda) transfer, and re-enable it afterwards?
If the worst comes to the worst, I might send keystrokes to hit this checkbox... but I'd rather not do this because it would be a horrible hack...