by TechMage » Nov 4, 2002 @ 8:02am
I wouldn't worry about being "geekish" or about getting girls, Michael. You are only 13. Wait until your at least 17 or 18, becuase girlfriends before that age are pointless. It's like my dad used to say, "So now you have a girlfriend, what are going to do with her? Have kids? Get married?" and that's what it all boils down to.
In my opinion, before you start dating girls (and ultimately sleeping with them), you should be over 18, have a full time job, and be totally independant from your parents. If you are not any of these, then what's the point of having a girlfriend? If it's just to feed your hormones then that's dangerous and wrong. I personally would be very embarrased if I had a child while my parents were taking care of me, or I didn't have a job to support the mother and the child.