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Four years and a few months, better make it close to 5 years liking her. Dumped for being over-jealous. She loves me but isn't in love with me. Doesn't want to see me or talk to me. Ok, I can't see her then, but she lives upstairs in another apartement.<br><br>The stupidest shit too was that I was overcoming and controlling my jealousy. I was becoming the person I was at the beginning of the relationship, bringing the roses making her dinner and all that other sappy stuff that I was happy to do.

Ah, Boogaloo, don't give up on improving yourself just because you got dumped.  As the old saying goes, "There is plenty more fish in the sea." <br>

that girl you took all the photos of? oh well...

She was a very good photographer. Made magic out of her "subjects".

you think you've got it bad? i just lost my download of lightwave through a power cut. only had an hour to go now i'm restarting with someone giving me a 0.19k connection - 4800 minutes to go...

Boy, Paul, you really know how to put things in perspective. <grin>

Paul, that was inappropriate, Boogaloo is obviously quite depressed and pissed. <br><br>Man, I just had a long post, and I freakin' lost it again! Stupid thing!<br><br>Anyway, I'll summorize what I had written before. <br>Boogaloo, the female species will never be understood by us. They think differently than us. Man, I had a good paragraph about girls liking dumb guys more than smart ones, but I'll make it quick. For some stupid reason, girls are more attracted to dumb stupid guys, and repel intelligent ones. My theory is that they want to control their boyfriends, so they choose dumb ones. I don't get it, and I don't like it. The chic I'm tryin' to get, I think is more attracted to this other idiot, because he's really really really dumb (I mean 10-20% grade in my History class). I know I still have a better chance than him, but I just hope that she, well, doesn't like dumb idiots. The worst example is the top student in my grade, a female. You would think that because she's smart, she would go out with an intelligent guy, but no, she's goin' out with a real skinhead. A really stupid skinhead with a swastika shaved on the back of his head. I don't get it, and never will. All I know, is that Boogaloo, try talking with yer chic again, but don't try to impress her with dopy flower and poems, but really talk to her about the situation, and try to make a compremize. If she thinks you are too jealous (whatever that means...), then say you'll try to be less jealous, and actually try to be less jealous. <br><br>Who knows, just don't be like Paul, and be too scared to talk to her.

stop hounding me you stupid fag. jeez...

oh yeah warren, apparently women go for assholes because they think they can 'change' them... or something. i dunno, ask maggie. you stupid fag.

There is only one, albeit large, difference between males and females. Males use language to boast and brag, females use it to convey knowledge, experiences, and emotions. THAT is the only difference. I usually don't brag much, especially when I'm around girls. That's a good thing, girls don't like bragging. That's the only real 'key' to understanding the opposite sex.<br><br>Pau- I mean Boogaloo, trust me, you don't want her back. Girls usually don't break up with guys just for being jealous, I bet there was something else going on too... not like THAT I'm sure.<br><br>Warren, in the highschool years most girls are attracted to the muscular, physically attractive men. That's just the way it is. Later on, even towards the end of highschool, they realize that those guys can't do anything for them. You'll see. But it definitely doesn't hurt to buff up and look confident.<br>The worst thing you could do with a girl is to treat her as 'just one of the guys,' even if she is just a friend. So don't get lax when your in a relationship, they all want to be wined and dined.<br><br>Oh, and Paul, my girl advice usually works. I have about 15 female friends, only 3 or so guy friends. I get along and understand girls quite well and they like that. I'm not saying I'm a pimp as I'm sure you'll take that, I just get along with them better, as I said.