Everyone has to be rejected sometime, just to put them straight so they don't get really arrogant (which is a trait most girls don't like, hence the 'you have to be rejected sometime'). But what I really hate is when girls play these little games and 'hint' at things. Like saying they have to work, or 'let me check with my parents first.' It's even harder to take because you get your hopes up, even a little bit. They should just so no from the start dammit!<br>But my first rejection, the shock only lasted 30 minutes and I wasn't really that disappointed.<br>Oh, and they NEVER want to talk about WHY they don't want to date you, or they use the "you're not my type line." Another thing I REALLY hate, because I really want to know so I can improve myself! But no, "I really don't want to talk about it, James" "Stop james, just leave me alone" "I'm going to SUE you for SEXUAL HARRASMENT, JAMES!" ... oh wait, forget that last part, where was I? Oh yes.<br><br>Paul, just start talking to her, it will do you some good. You can get rid of your perveted fantasies and get back down to earth. I bet you don't even know what her voice sounds like! Just ask her for a pencil or something then comment on the book she's reading. She is in the library all day, right? And she's got to quit her job sometime and you'll never see her again anyway!<br><br>Let me tell you about this girl at scho- no, nevermind. ... But all the sudden she just quits talking to me! GEEZ! I left her a little note on her calculator and she came back the next time flashing her eyelashes "James, I got your message. that was
so CUTE!" and we start talking about our pets, our families, what we like to do. Then two days later she just talks with me less, so I'm afraid to ask her out now, especially since she's really close to her friends, which are mainly guys. So the day after that we're just sitting in silence. The next day she just up and leaves the table! The first day she was all sitting on my lap in the NHS meeting after school ... we were having the best time! But something just clicked! ARGH!<br><br>But let's stick to Paul's library girl, my library girl changes too often.