Library Girl Thread

[Bjorn Keizers]

[Bjorn Keizers]

[Warren]

[Bjorn Keizers]

[Warren]

[James S]

I walked that one girl back to her dorm room after class, the one I was talking about before in my English class. Had a nice little conversation, not really, but you know, it was a conversation. She laughed a couple times, but I don't know what her laughs sound like. They sounded more like obligatory laughs, like she thought I was expecting her to laugh... but I don't know. She's really cute, and she's got strawberry red hair, my favorite. But I don't know that much about her personality, although it seems like it jives with my own, from the way she's reacted to what I say in class/during class discussions.

[Bjorn Keizers]

[James S]

[Bjorn Keizers]

[James S]

Oh I've got several female friends. Girls make the best friends, I'm closer to my girl friends than I am to my guy friends. I don't know why, but I just don't hang out with guys nearly as much as I hang out with girls. It's about 3:1 female to male friendship ratio with me. And it seems like I'm always kicking myself because I end up liking one of them sooner or later and not being able to show it. Of course they also end up doing the same thing as me ... just usually at a different time.

But I'm planning on transfering to a different college so I'm not even really out to make friends this year anyway.

Oh, and I disagree with "recreational" or "casual" sex. First of all, I don't understand how it can be considered a recreation or casual by any means. Second, I feel that making love is something special and important. It's the best way a couple can show their love to each other, and if you do that with tons of people casually then it doesn't mean anything any more when you want to show your love to the one you marry.

I'm not judging if you do partake in those activities, but I don't and find it distasteful and dishonest. Actually... I do judge, I suppose. Oh well

[sandmann]

I'm pretty sure why you like hanging out with girls more than guys, and why you don't like sex: you are gay.

[James S]

Sorry to ruin your dreams, but I'm not.

[Warren]

I have several female friends, we talk and stuff, I don't know, it's definitely different than guy friends, it's...less casual...I don't really know how to describe it. When I'm hanging with my male friends, we act rediculously stupid and immature, and that's fun because the day is boring and lifeless (during lunch, we shoot stuff at eachother with the plastic fork, and combine foods and make people eat it, HILARIOUS!). But when I'm with female friends, we don't throw stuff or make people eat gross stuff, we just chill. Well, me and my guy friends (which is the far majority) don't always act like that. It's like, when talking with my usual male friends, we talk about computers, music, and stupid stuff. When I talk with female friends, we talk about experiences, FEELINGS, and stuff like that (jokedly though), so I guess that's the difference. Moose is more mature and serious, that's why he hangs with the girls. Me and my male friends do stupid stuff because all day we're mature and serious, so it's a way to release it all. Whatever, I'm blabbering too much.

[James S]

Thank you, Warren, for the kind description.

[sandmann]

Just because you have more girl friends than guy friends doesn't mean you're mature. I'm mature when I want to be. The difference is I'm not uptight, so I can let go and be with my guy friends and be immature sometimes. I have plenty of girl friends, and I'm closer to some than most of my guy friends. I'd tell this one girl anything, and I pretty much have. I can rarely be that open with my guy friends. There's just something about those breasts that makes you reveal yourself. Maybe it's because you'd like her to "reveal" herself to you.