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Postby Chad » Jan 14, 2004 @ 6:28am

I got a girl problem, and its long and sad, so here goes.

I have a friend named Nathan who has this really hot sister named Cathrine. me and Cathrine have been friends up until another friend came along named Josh, now all her attention is diverted to him, and she shuns me more and more, even though I still hang at her house all the time. Ever since she turned 14, she's been acting really bad, like against the moral standards of her family and religion, so it tears my heart into pieces, because I don't want to lower my standards to have her like me again. She said shes done something sooo bad she would be kicked out of the house, but told me not to tell, even though she didn't tell me this thing she did. She also toys with me, showing affection one moment and disregard the next, usually when there are other people around. Another bad part, Nathan is starting to believe that I'm coming over not to hang with him, but steal looks at his twin sister through teh bathroom and her room, which is not true but has happened occasionally, so now I am losing a friend as well. Last time i was over there, she was walking down the hall with only a bra and some very tight pants on, but she did nothing. When i look at her other times, she gets really defensive and attacks me verbally. I mean, it's kinda hard not to notice her beautiful figure gracefully move here and there, especially since my infatuation has spanned about a year now.

Another thing is that she mentioned yet another guy at her Jr. High the last time we all hung out. She started running her hand all over Josh's leg, and Josh detracted it, and that brought up a new conversation when she said that he was to chicken to let anyone touch him. She gave a lot of valid clues that led me to believe that she gave him some free sex or other sexual activity. Now her affection is spread between three guys. This almost seriously made me sob in pain, desperation, and frustration.

Thanks to anyone who read this, any advice at all is helpful. The names have been changed.
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Postby Kzinti » Jan 14, 2004 @ 7:01am

Just forget about her? Never let a women play with your feelings. It doesn't get any better over time. I know it ain't easy but it's the way it is.
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Postby Brig » Jan 14, 2004 @ 8:48am

Don't expect reasonable thought or maturity out of a fourteen year old girl. It sounds like she wants a sexual relationship (if that, sounds more like she wants attention), and you're not ready for one. Of course, she could just be a tease. Don't expect her to change for your sake. Let it go, and don't compromise your personal convictions for someone else.
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Postby Brig » Jan 14, 2004 @ 4:23pm

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Postby James S » Jan 14, 2004 @ 4:58pm

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