I'm concerned about the reputation you'll get. Of course she'll love being treated like trash, that's not the point. It just depends on whether you want to be like chuck or like me.
And if you do that to her it's not like you're going to be able to stay with her for long. You'd just be using her. If you just want sex then go with chuck's plan, but sex is simply masterbating but warmer and stickier. It's not some amazing thing. Cuddling on the couch feels much better.
